I don’t know where you are at right now. Maybe you’re happily married, engaged or just started dating the greatest person. Or maybe you are on the other side of the spectrum and Valentines day is not the greatest day for you this year. Or you could be in the middle, you could be single or in a relationship and just feel that Valentines Day is way too commercialized(you aren’t alone!).
I want you guys to know that for years Valentines day was super hard for me. I either had memories of an abusive boyfriend or of a boyfriend who wouldn’t celebrate it because he thought it was way too, “sexual” and instead would lecture me on it.
I get it.
This post is for you guys.
I just want you to know that Valentines day isn’t what defines love.
You are loved & known. You are seen & and heard.
It’s right around the corner….
For months supermarkets have had aisles stocked with teddy bears of all sizes holding hearts that say, “I love you” along with heart shaped boxes containing candy of all flavors and sizes.
Flower shops are quickly gathering orders together, and preparing for the Valentines Day rush of loved ones sending flowers to one another. Restaurants are also bracing themselves for the crowd of people preparing to descend upon them on Valentines Day evening.
So, ladies and gentlemen, what exactly is love?
Is love when your significant other brings home flowers to you?
Is love when your significant other brings you chocolate?
Is love when you have sex?
Is love when your significant other brings home a teddy bear bigger than Mars with a heart that says, “Love”?
Is love when you get up early to cook breakfast for your loved one?
The answer to all of these is no.
These are all things that you do for someone because you want to show them love or appreciate them.
They are actions that show people that you love them.
But, they aren’t love necessarily.
In John 3:16 the Bible tells us, For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
How many of us would give up our children for the world?
How many of us would give up our loved ones for the world?
For God so loved…..
Your aunt and uncle.
Your best friend.
The waiter/waitress at your favorite restaurant.
The politicians in D.C.
The Olympic athletes.
God gave us His one and only son. That whosoever may believe in Jesus, may have eternal life.
The God who created us, who knows our thoughts even before we speak them. Who knows not just the good about us, but the bad too.
He gave up his one and only son.
Jesus died on the cross for the entire worlds sins.
Society has commercialized love to mean that it comes in a “heart” or that love somehow goes with a certain day.
True love is found on the cross and is found daily.
Happy Valentines Day guys!
Side Note: Ever since I went to see The Greatest Showman I can’t stop listening to the soundtrack on Spotify. So I decided to buy it to listen to it in my car as well. Anyone else addicted to the soundtrack?