This word carries a lot of baggage with it.
often the weight of the word makes it scary and seem like it’s towering over us ready to pounce
as a teenager when I first started attending youth groups and Bible studies within the church, I would often hear that women were to submit themselves to men.
and honestly? It made me shiver. More so because of the context of how I was viewing submission.
According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary submission can be defined as:
- To yield oneself to the authority or will of another.
- To permit oneself to be subjected to something
When you are submitting yourself to another person you are basically allowing them to have authority over you.
For the longest time I viewed submission as letting men control me or I saw it as giving up my voice and making myself weak. how wrong I was.
Nonetheless it’s scary, right? To give someone that much power in your life….
Let’s look at Ephesians 5:22-24
Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
Notice that last part friend, “as you do to the Lord“.
We are to submit ourselves to our husbands as we do to the Lord. We submit ourselves to God’s will daily. We ask Him to have His will be done in our lives.
Let’s take a look at Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her,
Yes, we are called to submit to our husbands out of love and respect for them, but husbands are called to love their wives as Christ does.
Submission is not a reason to allow someone to ever abuse you or hurt you. Submission doesn’t mean you are any less valued or treasured.
For the longest time I was really scared and I didn’t like the thought of having to submit myself to men. It made me feel inferior or like I had no worth. So dear friend, I understand if you are struggling with that.
My prayer for you is that you see submission not in negative light but as something that you do out of love and respect for that person. I pray that most of all we learn to submit ourselves to Christ daily so that His will may be done in our lives.